And so " she" will reluctantly ask for financial help again.
If the guy is determined to make her supposed trip happen regardless of the expenses, he sends the money again and again.
Some scammers fall in love and ask for money within 10 days, while others may correspond for 6-8 months before requesting any money.
The duration of the phase depends on the scammer's own work style.
If the guy agrees, the "lady" pretends to put all effort into making "her" travel arrangements. " She" acts surprised to find out that there are various expensive requirements that " she" has to comply with before she can fly out of the country.
Those supposed requirements usually include proof of financial independence and requirement to pay off all loans that "she" has in her name.
The longer the set up phase, the higher is the scammer's probability of success in obtaining the money.
Since a lot of letters need to be answered, the scammer usually does not have the ability to answer all of them individually.Almost all scammers tell their victims that "this the the first time she uses the internet to get aquatinted with a man".To speed up the process, the scammer "falls in love" with each of the potential victims literally within two to six weeks.She will tell that she has found out everything she needs to do to receive a tourist (work, student) visa.She will be all bubbly and excited about the opportunity.